I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists. Mormonism is not meant to be a casual part of a Mormon's life but it is meant to be the center. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. You are looking for evidence that a. Be direct and get your needs met. Let her go right now then. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship.
I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. I understand in some measure of the pressure on the provider, but this profession was their choice. Being married to a doctor is a difficult thing to balance. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. Anonymous, you are right. But wait a minute.