BuzzFeed asked for your best techniques — here are tips from our readers with vaginas that you might want to try yourself. Which is understandable! Masturbation might not be as taboo as it used to be, but we're still not encouraged to be as experimental and adventurous in our solo sex lives as we are in our regular ones. To help you get some new ideas, BuzzFeed asked people of all ages, genders, and sexualities to describe the nitty-gritty of how they actually masturbate. Here are tips from our readers with vaginas that you might want to try yourself. Just kidding, but I've never had one line up perfectly with my clitoris when I was also using it for penetration. I finally just sprung for two vibrators and now I keep one on my clit for steady vibrations and use the second one on my G-spot. I get naked, woman-on-top position and just start to grind until come. Sometimes I ride a dildo while sitting in a chair in front of the mirror so it's like watching myself in cowgirl position. Other times, I'll lie down in front of a mirror.
3. Set the ~mood~.
You're stressed out ugh, work! What's a girl to do? Masturbate, of course! For starters, it doesn't just feel good—solo play is legit good for you. In other words, you should probably consider adding it to your self-care Sunday routine, stat.
Tips and tricks to help you do you. The stimulation is more intense. And if you correctly combine circular movements with the amount of pressure that pleases you, it's sheer bliss! It's also amazing to take advantage of this position and massage your anus with the other free fingers. I have fantastic orgasms masturbating this way. Masturbation just got even better. So I put my pillow between my legs and would lie on my stomach, rubbing on it, until I came. And move to your own rhythm.
Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. But so is enjoying a little one-on-one time with you and your body. Masturbation is a safe and natural way to feel good, discover what gets you hot, and release built-up sexual tension. Keep reading to learn more about masturbating with a vagina, how you can get started, and what you can do to really turn up the heat. Remember though: This will vary from person to person. Set the mood. Think about turning down the lights, lighting some candles, and listening to relaxing music to get the mood going.